個(gè)人的命運(yùn)就像握在手中的小鳥一樣，完全是由自己控制的。在這個(gè)社會(huì)中總有一些人是比大多數(shù)人成功的，而他們成功的原因，很多人卻它歸結(jié)為幸運(yùn)-好的背景、正好碰上了很好的機(jī)會(huì)等等。其實(shí)，運(yùn)氣并不是成功的因素。Aristotle有一個(gè)理論"there is a reason for everything that happens, whether we know the law or principle behind it or not."后來(lái)又引申為"for every event, there is a probability of that event occurring under certain circumstances."
對(duì)于每一個(gè)人來(lái)說，成功都是有可能的，所要做的事情就是設(shè)定一個(gè)目標(biāo)，然后通過各種努力無(wú)限制的增大這個(gè)可能性。也許我們并不知道哪些努力可以增大成功的可能性，但是同時(shí)還有另外一個(gè)理論"There is a direct relationship between the number of different things you attempt and your likelihood of eventual success.although you cannot predict which one of a series of events will be successful, by the Law of Averages you know that by doing a certain thing a certain number of times, you will achieve your goal."也就是說所做的努力越多，成功的可能性就越大，直到無(wú)限接近成功。成功完全掌握在我們自己的手中。
出自:http://blog.csdn.net/wangjiong/archive/2005/10/12/500380.aspx